From Doug Wilson‘s Future Men (which every adult with parental, church, or familial influence on young men should read) – underlined emphasis mine:
“Masculine worship does not exclude women in the same way that feminine worship excludes men. Women flourish when men lead in the church. So the church is not a men’s club – men, women, children, and babies gather before the Lord together. Masculine worship is not worship for men; it is worship in which men fulfill their responsibilities to others. As a result of masculine leadership, women and children are free to contribute to worship rightly. But they do so because men have taken responsibility. In a scriptural worship service, both masculine and feminine elements will be present, but the masculine will be dominant, in a position of leadership. When the feminine element leads or dominates, the result is that those men who are masculine are encouraged to stay away.“